My relationship was going fine, when out of the blue, my ex wants some space. How do I make my stale ex relationship fresh again, because I want my ex back. These are things that happen from time to time, when both people in a relationship don’t work on keeping it fresh. Every relationship has to be worked on to keep it from going stale and becoming boring. Nobody wants to live in a boring relationship, and it sometimes takes some extra work to keep it from breaking up, just out of boredom.

Language of Desires

There are many reasons why one person in a relationship might want some space. The best thing to do is try to stay friendly and pleasant with your ex. Don’t push them but try to find out what the reason was that they wanted some space. If they just don’t love you anymore, then you just have to move on because you can’t make someone love you. But chances are that’s not the reason. If your ex still has feelings for you, then the relationship can be mended, but it takes work on both sides.

First you have to find out what led to your ex wanting some space. Once you find out, you can work on it, but you can only fix what you control. So, if the reason is something you said or did, you can fix that. But if its not what you said or did, but it might be something else like a family matter or just something stressful that your ex couldn’t handle anymore. If that’s the case then your ex has to figure it out and how to deal with it because you have no control over that, so you can’t fix it.

Be supportive of your ex and help them get through the difficult time. Be understanding and keep an open mind. Find out if your ex still has strong feelings for you and if they do, tell them that you will help them get over their problem. Tell them that you’ll be there for them and that your willing to give the relationship another try. Don’t press the issue but be friendly and offer your support and help. After the reason for the breakup is out in the open, you have to decide if it can be put back together. If the relationship ended because it just got stale, that can be fixed. But if it ended for some serious reason, then you need to evaluate the problem, understand what got it to that point, and decide if it can be rekindled. All relationships are not destined to continue.

Don Paquin (aka Poppss) I’ve been online for over 10 years helping people find information they want and need for everyday living. There are many reasons a relationship can breakup. If both in the relationship don’t continue to work on it, it can become stale and boring. Keep the relationship fresh and enjoyable. Communication has to stay open and honest for any relationship to continue to grow. Have respect for each other, be committed to making the relationship work. These are a few of the basic things to do to start to get your ex back. For more understanding help, Click the link