Knowing that you want to get your ex boyfriend back can be like a double edged sword. On the one hand, it’s good for you to know what you want, but on the other hand… until you get him back it can make you feel insecure, confused and like you just don’t know what to do. If you have come to the conclusion that you DO want to get your ex boyfriend back, and you are ready to find out the best way to get him back, then you are in for a treat.

Language of Desires

It just might end up being a lot simpler than you may have thought. Relationships can seem a lot more difficult to deal with when you are a little too close to see the big picture. And sometimes, that can make you feel insecure for no reason at all. Sure, you may have broken up, but that does not mean that you cannot get him to come back to you.

Here are a few tips on how to get him back that you want to know:

1. To get your boyfriend back, you have to work your way back into his thoughts.

Just calling him up and expecting that he’s going to say yes is really just a hope and a wish. If you really want to set it up so that you do end up back with him, then you have to find a way to work yourself back into his thoughts. It’s so much easier for you to get him back when he is already thinking about you.

2. You cannot allow your insecurities to make you do things you normally wouldn’t do.

When you know that you want him back, but you just haven’t gotten him there yet, it can make you feel insecure. But, if you allow that insecurity to get a hold of you, it can make you do things that you normally would not do. Don’t let that happen, because then you are just going to make it harder to get him back.

3. He needs to see a brand new you.

When your ex boyfriend sees you looking better than ever and you catch his eye, then you have a much better shot at making him want you back. Don’t shortchange yourself, the better you look, the better you feel. And when you look good and feel good, guys notice this, including your ex boyfriend. So, go out and treat yourself to a new look and make him fall for you again.


If you are struggling with trying to get back your ex boyfriend, then you need to really know what works and what does not.

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