When you are in a relationship and think everything is going fine and then “bang”, your love says “I don’t want to be with you anymore”, how would you feel. You would feel hurt, angry, upset and emotionally drained just wondering why your love would dump you, not nice at all.

Language of Desires

So now you want your love back, a lot of grovelling will have to happen and explaining. You cannot just stop the relationship in its tracks and hope that you can board that train again. Put yourself in your boyfriends shoes and see how you would react to being dumped and you don’t know what the reason is. Your love is not going to just pick things up, you will need to have a good reason as to why you dumped your love and hope that your love will take you back, as I said try their shoes and see how you would feel.

Think about what you will be saying to your love to get your love back, be aware that it could take a while before you may get your foot in the door to rebuilding the relationship. Your love may not even want you back, depending on how long it has been since you have spoken to your love, he or she could have moved on. Why would you want to have that feeling of being hurt again.

How can your love trust you in a relationship with them? Your love will need to be reminded all the time that you really do love them and that your relationship will remain strong throughout. Communication is the key to being honest with your love, so talk to your love and make sure he or she understands that you will be fully committed this time, that’s if they are willing to talk to you.

How do you get your ex boyfriend back after dumping him? You need to apologize and say you did not know what you were thinking at the time and that you will be fully committed to the relationship but be aware that your love could say they do not want to continue.

If you really want them back then do something special, send them something they would not expect. Text them to say you are thinking of them and you can hardly wait to spend time together. Make a romantic dinner. Time will be your friend so all you can be is just patient.

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