It is an unpleasing feeling to know that even after the break up, you still wish it did not end and you still keep on knowing how to get back together. The pain is still clinging to you and to your ex for sure. It is not easy for you to admit that you made a mistake of breaking up with your ex, much more when you ask for your ex’s forgiveness and hope that the relationship can still be repaired and there is still a chance of getting back together. Well, good news for you, even if the break up had broke your heart and caused you pain, the possibilities of reconciliation and reconnection are high.
Now, if you want to be reunited, here are some sure hit tips on how to get back together; it worked for many and if you just follow these, it will work for you too. One thing you need to do before you start following these steps is to make sure your motives are pure. Do not ever make loneliness or jealousy as your reasons for wanting to be back with your ex.
Give yourself time to think a lot of things and do not just rush into a decision of winning your ex back just because the night is so cold without him/her or your ex has a new partner in his/her life. OK, now that you’ve spent some time analyzing your feelings and you’re sure that the only reason you want your ex back is because you think the two of you can have a great relationship and you still love them, follow these steps:
1. Give them space. This time, you should avoid texting/calling your ex. It is imperative that both of you have space so that you will both miss each other. Communicating with your ex from time to time will not give your ex a fear that they really have lost you. With fear, your ex will become more interested to give the relationship and you a second chance.
2. Take a look at yourself and examine the good and bad sides of you and when change is possible, be willing to do it. This may be hard for you to accept some negative traits about yourself but it is necessary when you want the best relationship in the long run whether with your ex or with someone else. It’s pointless at all to enter into a new relationship or to be back on the old relationship once again when you are still not changing; your tempers, bad habits and flaws are still there that can create the same roll of conflict over and over again. If change did not happen because you chose not to, then expect that the relationship will still have the same cycle of tension.
3. While you are working out to improve some bad traits in your self, take also some time to be with your family and friends and together, do the things that’s enjoyable for you. This is your time to enjoy and live life to the fullest; the time to do things you love and give you happiness. Doing such thing instead of crying can make your ex think that you are still the same person he/she fell in love with.
These guaranteed tips to get back together have worked for many people and if you’re willing to use them, they can work for you too.
Johnny Wayne personally believes that all relationship can be saved but it all depends on how much effort is being put in. You can find out more about our Ex Recovery System Review and the tips on How To Fix a Broken Relationship.