Every guy who has ever been dumped by the girlfriend he truly loves wants to get her back before she hooks up with some other man. He can’t bear the thought of his ex kissing another man (or worse) and wants her back before he loses her for good.

Language of Desires

Fact is, men get dumped by a girlfriend a lot more often than men do it to their girlfriend. In 3 out of 4 boy-girl relationships, it’s the girl who does the dumping. So with that little stat out of the way how do you get back your ex girlfriend?

Before you go full steam ahead to getting your girlfriend back, ask yourself if your ex was the right one for you. Some guys only stay with their girlfriend because they have become stuck in a relationship rut. They are so comfortable with their relationship they don’t realize it’s not that good.  To them it’s easier to stick with it than go looking for somebody else.

If you don’t truly feel your ex was your soul mate then maybe you had a lucky escape and it was time to get a new girlfriend anyway.

If, after you have had a good think about it, you still want your girlfriend back then here’s a sneaky way to get her back.

Don’t go chasing her have to make her come to you.

This is where so many men go wrong, They call their ex girlfriend numerous times, send hundreds of texts, and, well, act just like a stalker.  This sort of behaviour will just drive your ex girlfriend away. Just play it cool and act as if you are not too bothered about splitting up.

Go on lots of dates, and if you can get a date with one of her close friends so much the better as you will make her think about you again. When she sees that you are still attractive to other women you’ve already won half the battle of how get your ex back.

If you are going to go to a party where you know she’s going to be, wear something she gave to you or something she liked to see you in.  Pay some attention to her, but spend your time with your friends and other girls too. 

And, if you get the chance to talk alone, bring up all the good  things that happened when you were going out together. Don’t overdo it with too much sentimentality, but make her wistful about your ex relationship. Girls can be fickle but if she still loves you, you have a good chance to get her back.

Trying these sneaky tactics can give you a much better chance of getting your ex-girlfriend back.

If you want more tips to get your ex-girlfriend back then check out this article Want Girlfriend Back. Get more relationship advice here at Love Guides