Getting your ex girlfriend back doesn’t have to be as complicated and difficult as you may have been lead to believe it is. Read on to find out the top 4 fool proof steps to winning her back.

Language of Desires

Allow her space. The first step in any breakup is to allow some space. This gives you both time to gather yourselves after the pain of the breakup and re-evaluate the situation. You will be in a much better position with a clear head space to think and make decisions regarding how you should go about the following steps. Each relationship and breakup is different so you need to be in your best decision-making mindset to give yourself the maximum chance at getting your ex girlfriend back.

Get in touch. Don’t be scared, you’ve just spent x amount of time in a relationship getting to know her and what makes her tick so use this to your advantage when you first contact her. If you know she loves text messages then you can send her a text, or maybe she would prefer a hand written gesture? A phone call is probably the best choice in most situations. You can talk about what each of you have been up to, make small talk or even apologize about the situation. Bringing up the issue and apologizing (even if it’s a general apology) can put her at ease and make the conversation flow a bit easier.

Invite her on a group outing. I say group outing because it’s a lot safer than reconnecting after a breakup with a one on one date where things can often be awkward. Being in a group may also relieve the pressure of maintaining an interesting conversation from you. Make sure you’re the one who invites her because it will demonstrate to her that you still care about her. After a couple ‘group outings’ and if things are going well, you may find yourself in a good position to ask her out for a proper ‘catch up date’.

Make her feel good. This is a no-brainer really, I mean who doesn’t want to feel good about themselves? You make your ex girlfriend feel good about herself and she will eventually connect the time you spent/spend together with her good feelings. Although you should keep it subtle and in modesty, you are pretty much limited to your creativity on this one. Accomplish making her feel good and it will make your goal of “getting my ex girlfriend back” a heck of a lot easier.

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