It’s bad enough having to go through a break up, but when your ex breaks all ties with you, that’s a killer! You probably want to be in touch and somewhere deep down you may even want to get your ex back. But how can you get your ex back if she or he doesn’t even want to talk to you? What’s the way out when your ex doesn’t even call and refuses to take your call? Find out!

Language of Desires

The best way out is to break all ties with your ex for at least a month. Don’t call, don’t find out where he/she is or how he/she is doing. Sure, it’s tempting to find out, but don’t! Take this month as self therapy. This is when you concentrate on yourself, cope with your pain, heal a bit and figure out what your next plan of action should be. Also, take this time to rearrange your house, your wardrobe, your image. Just go in for a complete overhaul and make over. That should make you feel as good as new! And the time away from your ex will make you put you more in control emotionally.

And when the month’s over, pick up the phone and confidently dial your ex’s number. Do this at a time when your ex is not home. This gives you the flexibility to leave a message without having to deal with the stress of speaking to him/her! Be calm and composed. Keep the message brief but interesting! Remember, we want your ex to call back so keep a grip on your emotions and don’t reveal much.

It probably makes sense to write your message on a piece of paper for ready reference. In case you’re not sure what to say try this: “Hi! I know you don’t want to talk to me, but I just wanted to say sorry. I feel horrible about everything that’s happened between us… And I know you were right about the break up. I didn’t get it then or probably didn’t want to, but I do now. I’ll always remember the good times we had and hope that you can put the bad times behind you and remember the happy times. Guess what? There’s so much going on in my life! Wish I could tell you. Bye!”

Sound happy, even excited! Keep your ex guessing as to what’s going on in your life. That’s the kind of message you need to leave. The idea is for your ex to bite the bait and call you back! Once you’ve made the call and left a message, be patient. It’s just a matter of time before you get that return call! And when your ex does call keep his/her mind guessing even more! Make sure you leave your ex curious about what’s happening in your life that’s so exciting? Let his/her mind draw its own conclusions. Have you found a new love? Are you over him/her and the relationship you shared?

The good thing you’ll achieve two things with this message – you’ve apologized as well as opened up the possibility of a fresh start by not focusing on the problems you both had. It might be manipulative, but you’ve got to do it if you’re keen on getting your ex back! All the best! And yes, it is absolutely possible to get your ex back!

Why is getting your ex back so important to you? Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.

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