Believe me when I say I’ve been in the ‘broke up with me’ position where all one does is spend the day sitting down, fantasizing and dreaming up ways of getting him back. Sometimes, I wish breaking up was as easy as throwing away a cup of cold coffee – no thoughts, regrets, or emotions but I guess the fact that our emotions have a toll on us is one big reason we’re human – we just have to deal with it. From my experience, women who have just had their hearts broken fall into 2 categories: those who really desire getting him back and those who don’t.

Language of Desires

If you do belong to the first group then this article is written just for you.

One very common yet understandable mistake ladies make after a break up is putting up this ‘hate shield’ whenever they’re talking with their ex. If you belong to the ‘getting him back’ category, then the first thing to do is destroy that ‘hate shield’ because the longer you keep it up, the more reasons he feels convinced breaking up with you was the right thing to do. You should NEVER do drama as well and that includes crying your eyes out or going on your knees in public. You need to learn how to get a grip on your emotions. It’s okay to cry like a baby when you’re alone in your house or wherever but when you see him or speak with him on the phone, you need to pretend you’re the most self-respecting, out-spoken and descent lady out there. You want to portray an image of emotional security and NOT insecurity, particularly if he was the one was messed up in the first place. All this will get him thinking about you and improve your chances of getting him back.

Remember, it’s all about tactics and in this case, the image you portray of yourself to him is very important.

You NEVER want him to get that feeling you’re throwing yourself on him. You NEVER want him to get the feeling you want to become his friend because you DON’T. You need to see yourself as a commodity; no one wants a cheap and readily available item. It’s this same reason why you have Starbucks at $ 3 a cup and Kopi-Luwak at $ 150 a cup? It’s about Value! In this game, you want to portray yourself as an exotic commodity without being too direct about it otherwise, he’ll see through your games and it’s finished. Learn and adopt these strategies; and good luck with getting him back!

Why is getting your ex back so important to you?

Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.

Losing a lover is one of the most emotionally traumatizing episodes in our life. It is amazing how the very thing that brings us the most pleasure also brings with it the most grief.

But your situation is not hopeless. Actually, it is far from it. It is quite possible to win your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. I have successfully done it myself and you can do it too. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.

If you want to learn the most effective approach to successful reuniting with your ex, please visit It has worked for me and it will work for you. If you think that your relationship is worth of saving… you should fight for it. You can reverse the breakup and get your ex back… just like I have.

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