Getting Back Together


Getting Your Ex Back Without Humiliating Yourself

Everyone has thought about it. We have all contemplated silly things to get our ex’s back after a failed relationship. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it did not. Be weary of your attempt to humiliate yourself in front of your ex because this very well might backfire, you might end up humiliating your ex, it depends on the level which you perform the humiliating act. I want to officially state that you more than likely will not get your ex back with this venture.

Do not humiliate yourself out in public!

It is my experience in the past with breakups when I was the one who performed the dumping, that men have performed some amazing things to get me back. I had one-man walk up to me out in public and begin singing to me. The result of this is that I found out he could not sing, instant turn off. Another man decided he was going to pour his heart out on “open mike” night at a music club; I was humiliated, largely because he gained the support of the crowd and I looked like the bad person.

What the crowd did not understand is that I dumped him for cheating on me. These tactics did not work. If you want to get your ex back, be realistic and focus on your ex as compared to gaining people’s support to gain the desired result you want.

I am not stating that you cannot be creative when trying to get your ex back however, you must be wise. If you want to perform extreme tactics to gain your ex’s attention, ensure you perform this in private. This changes the whole arena of the situation. Some things you can try in getting your ex back is as follows:

Show up at their home dressed as a clown with balloons, which say I am sorry.

Are you going to look ridiculous? Of course, you are but this is something that will make your ex smile and laughter sometimes is truly the best medicine. Even if you are not successful with getting your ex back utilizing this tactic, she or he will remember you forever. That makes it very much worth the effort.

You can also try just being honest.

Inform your ex that you screwed up out of utter stupidity and if they will take you back, you cannot promise that you are not stupid but you will work as hard as needed to work on the relationship because of your deep feelings for them.

Place yourself in your ex’s shoes

Try to understand within your own mind why your ex broke up with you in the first place. Ask yourself when faced with the decision they faced what would you have done? More than likely you probably would have done the same thing. This will not make you feel better however, it will enable you to sympathize why your ex choose the decision to break up with you. This will be helpful with you learning what you did wrong in the relationship and you can begin the healing process. This is a great step of gaining hope for getting your ex back.

You must also keep in mind when planning your strategy that there is a phase where you must give your ex the space and time they desire. You cannot shove your wants and desires onto your ex. Your ex has made a decision and you must adhere to that decision with the failed relationship.

Why is getting your ex back so important to you? Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.