There are thousands of people breaking up everyday around the world and only a few of them reach reconciliation and get happier with their ex again. All these people have a common quality, they search for what works and just do that. You are one of those few people who will get back together with their ex, as you have reached here to learn more about getting your ex back.
The first thing you will have to overcome while trying to get back together with your ex is the pain of breakup. This pain alone is sufficient enough to kill your dreams of winning back your ex altogether. Because this pain would lead to PANIC and DESPERATION which are two big enemies that will put you very far away from getting back with your ex.
So, first divert your mind and focus on staying cool. Don’t ever call your ex and try to explain them how deep you love them or how desperate you are to get them back in your life. Give some time for it to happen naturally.
Understand why the break up actually happened in the first place. In general men leave women due to lack of admiration for him from his girl, while women leave men due to the lack of appreciation for her from her guy. But you situation may have some specific reasons. Find them out and try your best to get rid of them, if it’s within your hands.
Start developing good habits, great friendships and start improving yourself. Make yourself a very good person in the time you are having to get back with your ex. Don’t rush, give enough time to develop a fresh new, better personality.
You should reach a state, where you are no longer desperate to get back together with your ex. When you are sure, that you have reached a state of “I don’t care but I would like to have my ex back in my life”, you should reach a mental state which tells you that you can be happy with or without your ex.
Once, you have reached this state, start contacting with your ex, call up for some coffee, but never talk about yourself. Just talk generally and friendly. Start building the relationship and show them how much better person you are, how much valuable you will be to them. The catch here is you will have to really put some work in improving yourself. Showing your ex that “you are great” will affect him/her to a great extent than telling your ex that “you are great”.
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