When you break up with someone you love; it can be very hard to deal with. You are angry, confused, and in pain. You want this to stop. I know this is a fact because I have been there, my brother has been there and most of my friends have gone though it too. “What should I do to get my ex lover back?” becomes the only question on your brain.
If you can’t stop thinking about “what should I do to get my ex lover back?” then follow this simple advice because It can be a lot harder to think straight when your under such strong emotions.
· Use common sense. Don’t let pain and desperation control your actions. Think about what you want to say or do before you take action. Also, you need to be nice. I know that can be hard but don’t make things worse by doing something like bad mouth them to anyone or treat them harshly.
· Don’t mess with their head. This is where people screw it up the most and kill whatever chance they had left. If you don’t start being completely honest, and start saying things that you think your ex lover wants to hear, or pretend to be in love with another person, you’re manipulating them and that will only make things worst. You will not get them back with them by lies and head games. Is that how you want to be treated?
· Don’t use jealousy. Telling them how their friend was hitting on you or something like that is NO good. Even if it is true, you could be starting trouble and that is what we are trying to avoid. You could make your ex mad enough and make them realize that they want you back, or not. It’s a risky gamble that I don’t recommend.
· Take it slow. Even if you feel like bringing up certain issues, just don’t. Taking your time might be hard but it will give you a much better chance. When you do bring up issues, be the first to listen and don’t interrupt. Take on one problem at a time and keep your cool. Also, be completely honest. You can’t fix a problem until you know exactly what it is.
These steps can definitely help you but relationships are very different and complex for each person. So you will need much more than what I can provide for you here.
There is a great e-book that has been around for awhile by T.W. Jackson, called The Magic of Making Up. This book teaches unconventional methods that has brought back together over 6000 people. Some of these methods are a little unusual but they work, and work well.
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