There are a number of reasons why a man may want more space. He may be contenting with family problems. He may have problems in the workplace, or he may have a fear of commitment. He may even be dealing with various insecurities. Whatever the reason may be, he needs more space. If you are wondering how to answer the question, “How to get my ex-back if he wants more space?” you will want to consider the below tips to help you in your endeavors.
You know that you are still in love with him, and you will still do anything for him; however, you do not want to have your pride damaged. In order to prevent this from happening, you will need to play hard to get for a little while. The objective is to show him that leaving you is his loss, not yours.
If your boyfriend demonstrates that he has feelings for you, then it will be okay for you to start conversing with him. Remember, though, to keep the conversations brief. You can send a short text message once in a while. You can also write a brief email. Don’t go crazy with it because you still need to keep in mind that he needs his space. If you do it just right, you will remind him of how wonderful it for you to be in his life.
Sooner or later, your ex-boyfriend will start to show an interest in you. He will be interested in spending more time with you. When this does occur, you will be able to talk about the good times that you had with one another, such as where you met, your first kiss, and any other sentimental things that you both share. Talking about such memories will enable the both of you to rekindle the relationship.
If you feel compelled to bring up anything negative, do not do it under any circumstances. Right now is not the time to talk about any negative aspects of the relationship because doing so will remind him more that he needs space from you, and he will do whatever he can to push you away even more, possibly cutting off all ties. That is absolutely the last thing you want to happen. As a matter of fact, it will be devastating if it does. Because your objective is to get him to come back to you, you need to remain positive at all times.
If your ex-boyfriend is showing good signs that he wants to get back with you, then you can begin to open your heart up to him. Avoid appearing desperate because the desperateness will only turn him away more. If he does, however, show you that he does not want to get back with you, then it is beneficial to allow things to take place naturally.
Your journey in getting your ex-boyfriend to get back with you if he needs space is not going to be an easy one. It will require a lot of time, effort, and patience. It is, however, achievable if you stay the course and keep your eye on the prize.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T W Jackson aka (T ‘Dub’) Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my ex back.
T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, step by step plan called ‘The Magic Of Making Up’, which you can find at my ‘Get Ex Back’ website