The sneakiest way to get him back is to make him think it’s his idea and before you say that’s impossible, you need to read further. It’s not as difficult as you might think with a little psychology.

Language of Desires

Here’s the deal. From the exact moment that he broke up with until right now at this moment, he feels empowered. He feels like he is dominant and that he is in complete control. Because of that, he also expects you to react in a certain way. When you do, it only reinforces what he is already feeling.

For example, if you call, text and email him telling him how sorry you are and how much you love him, he’s going to eat it up because it makes him feel like he has control of you. Understand? His ego is in control and he is lovin it. You’ll never get him back that way.

However, a couple of good right hooks to his ego will bring it all crashing down around him and then his vulnerability will begin to show. He won’t feel so big and strong and manly at this point and he will be forced to deal with his feelings for you.

Now the question is, how exactly do you make that happen? Well actually it’s quite simple. Like I said previously, do the opposite of what he expects you to do.

One sure-fire way to throw a powerful right hook to his ego is to simply let him know that you agree with him about the break up. Now wait! Don’t freak out on me here. Think about it. He expects you to fall apart but instead you agree with him. That will really throw him a curve ball he’s not expecting.

The trick is to keep your emotions out of the way. You don’t need any drama at this stage if you’re going to get back with him. Just send him a quick little email that says something like, “Hey I just wanted to let you know that I agree with you about the break up. My life has really turned around and some great things have happened. Well I gotta run. Busy, busy ya know. See ya.”

His brain will immediately go into overdrive trying to decipher your message. This one little message alone could really throw him for a loop. He suddenly won’t feel so powerful anymore.

Of course you could do this with a text message too but if he texts you back, don’t reply. At least not for 3 or 4 days. Same with the email. Just be absolutely sure of what you should say when you do respond, which is the next step. This trick most definitely needs to be part of your over all plan to get him back into your arms. You MUST know what to do every step of the way or you will find yourself going crazy trying to figure out what to do next.

Now you can enhance this method with things like going out with your friends, smiling and laughing at every opportunity and always looking your absolute best wherever you go, even if it’s just a quick run to the store. You never know who you might see you out and about and will tell your ex. You just might even run into him too.

The whole point here is that if you do this correctly, he will feel that he’s lost the control he thought he had. When that happens, he will start thinking he may have made a mistake breaking up with you and suddenly you are the one with the power. Even if he doesn’t make the first move, you will be the one that is in control of the situation and that is exactly what you want if you truly want to get him back.

Caution: This is only one piece of the pie. This tip alone won’t bring him back to you. You need a complete plan so that you will know exactly what to say and do each step of the way. Without a plan, it’s a shot in the dark that could leave you in a worse position than when you started. Look how easy it is to develop your plan right here: GET EX BACK