If you’ve broken up with your girlfriend, and want her back, don’t fret. You are not alone. People break up all the time, and many men regret that decision, just like you.

“So where do I begin when I want my ex girlfriend back?” you may be asking yourself.

While it may be tempting to call her at regular intervals, don’t fall into this age old trap. Put her out of your head for now. Focus on something you enjoy, whether it’s by taking up an old hobby, or catching up with old friends. This is your time to get to know yourself again. You spent a long time with your ex girlfriend. You shared in her activities; you hung out with her friends. And you may have fallen out of your old social circle.

Getting reacquainted with yourself

Before long, you will be into your old groove. So when she begins to come around, you have already filled your life with things you enjoy. And even better, you’ll be ready to share these activities with her.

If she tries to change you, this may be your cue to move on. Compromising your own values for her will only make you miserable. Stay true to your own feelings, and don’t change to satisfy her.

Confidence is key

Be confident about yourself. When you want your ex girlfriend back, it’s only natural to want to please her. But don’t appear needy. This is a big turn off. If you planned a romantic getaway before the two of you broke up, don’t call off the trip. Go by yourself or with friends. Going by yourself will give you the opportunity to get to know yourself again. Going with friends, on the other hand, is a great way to reconnect and have fun.

If you run into her, and she asks about the trip, don’t invite her along. Simply tell her that you’re still going, and leave it at that. She will begin to wonder who you’re going with.

This will make her want to spend more time with you. You will be all she can think about when you’re away. Be confident about your life and yourself. She may want to come back to your life.

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