Getting back together with an ex boyfriend can be tough. But by following some simple hints and pointers, you can give yourself a lot better chance of reuniting with him.

Knowing what to do when trying to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back can be confusing and frustrating to say the least. If your looking to get your ex back start by following the pointers below.

The first thing to take into consideration when trying to get back together with a loved one is to make sure you have a clear head and are in control of your emotions. No one wants to be around a downer, in other words, if your acting depressed and moody, no one including your ex boyfriend will want to spend time with you.

Make sure you stay positive, and a good way to do that is by smiling. I know sometimes its hard to smile when your in a bad mood or your just not feeling chipper. But when these times come around, JUST SMILE!, and by smiling every time your in a bad mood or not feeling “Into It” you will find you and others around you will become more enjoyable.

I can’t put enough emphasis on smiling as its one of the greatest forms of communication there is.

Don’t live in the past. You can’t do anything about previous short coming’s and the best way to get over this is to realize the past is beyond your control. So every time you start thinking about the past, change your thoughts to something else immediately. By dwelling on the past, your not giving the relationship a chance to prosper.

Be here now, concentrate on making things better now! It took awhile to lead to the split up, and putting the pieces back together is going to take a little time.

Be attractive! By keeping yourself together you will be more attractive to everyone around you including your ex, and in return will give yourself confidence. Having your hair fixed up or by wearing a new colorful outfit every time you see him will make him appreciate you a lot more. By staying healthy and keeping fit you will be giving yourself the self confidence to move ahead with the reconciliation.

With time, dedication, and the desire to get your ex boyfriend back, these tips should give you a better chance at reuniting with your ex. With the true desire to reunite with an ex, finding a experienced mentor can be very useful.

Lee L. Wilson