The steps to getting an ex back are very crucial and value-laden. Because, in the first place, why must you desire with all your guts to get back to your ex or get your ex back to you positively?

The first step that you must make includes a deep reflection process on whether you will directly do something to get your ex back come to you for good or indirectly do a few strategies that will send your ex looking for you again as they find out, get influenced, and be involved again by the things that you would be doing.

Surely, you prefer to do anything that will make your ex notice you again from the most passive hints to the most aggressive yet hopefully non-offensive acts.

Do you still have a deep appreciation for your ex? Have you figured out totally whether you will directly and personally do something for your ex and express something to your ex? Or have you chosen to stay calm and wait for her? Or approach other people and create indirect incidences that will make her seek for you and ask for a relationship with you again?

After having settled a general plan on what you must do for the sake of your broken relationship to fix and reconcile, the next step that you can do is to get accurate and adequate information details that will help you specify your general plan.

Is your ex with someone else now or has your ex remained alone and possibly lonely? Have you identified whether your ex has changed to someone new, a different person that could easily convince you now that this person is no longer the ex you once had and shared a good life with plus a traumatic experience?

Lastly, after having set your EQ and IQ to test in generally and specifically planning a detailed set of actions and alternative plans as well as having researched on the current lifestyle and investigated on any changes and whereabouts of your ex, you may now work on making yourself a better person.

Try not to be just you as most people recommend. That is not true. You have to change for good. Bit by bit before you can get to see your ex again. Change into someone else like your ex might have done and accomplished by now. May the bittersweet lesson push you now to make and take the steps to getting an ex back.

I finally discovered the secretsof how anyone can un-do their breakup and set the foundation for a happy, long-lasting and fulfilling relationship – and I want to share this discovery with you!