No matter what, breaking up with the one you love is a painful and life changing experience. Sadly, in many cases, a breakup usually signals the end of a relationship. If you are going through a breakup at the moment, I can understand the pain that you must be suffering. It doesn’t have to end you know and there are ways to get your ex back if you play your cards right.

The following secret but simple tips can help you get back in the arms of your lost love.

Take Some Time Out – The Break will do You Both Good
The breakup has occurred and you can’t change that. What you have to work on right now is to put together a list of what went wrong. Don’t rush this process as it is extremely important in helping you to identify what has to change to make your relationship work. There are usually faults on both sides and you have to concentrate on your issues and what changes you can make to improve the relationship. Resist the temptation to make contact with your ex just at this stage and start thinking about how you will make your first move.

Be Prepared To Forgive and Forget
Once you have your plan in place, make contact with your ex and try and catch up for an informal chat. If you can get to this position, then you are in with a chance to get your ex back. Explain how you have analyzed the problems in the relationship and how you propose overcoming your issues. If there are issues that concern you with your ex, now is the time to bring these out in the open. Remain calm and don’t fall back into your old ways. You don’t want to ruin your chance to get back together. Explain how you are prepared to forgive and forget if you can get back together.

Apologise For Anything That You May or May Not Have Done
Sadly, some people are not good at saying “I’m sorry”, yet in a lot of cases, these simple words can make an immediate difference to your relationship. If your partner does say these magic two words, have enough grace to accept the apology. When you understand the power of sincere apologies, your relationship will prosper.

Follow Your Heart
You know in your heart if your ex is the one for you. If this is the case, follow your heart and go all out to get them back in your life. Life is too short to be fighting with the one you love so the sooner you make up the better.

There is a beautiful saying and that is – To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides. There is no doubt about it – you love your ex. It’s time to do everything in your power to get your ex back before it’s too late.

If you really want to get your ex back, then you must follow your heart and act now.