But First Are There Ways To Stop A Break Up, Divorce or A Lover’s Rejection?

There are millions of break ups occurring everyday for one reason or another… infidelity, plain old lost passion,loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…

When our partner breaks up with us we are instantly filled with anger, rage and disbelief. Then there is pain and confusion what went wrong with the relationship. All sorts of crazy thoughts start creeping into our minds along with some pretty unusual actions on our part like…

Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry…
Binge eating for comfort…
Calling them several times a day…
Text messaging them constantly…
Constantly checking our voice mail to see if he/she called…
Not going out because we are afraid to miss a call…
Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you…
Feeling massively depressed…

The problem is when you finally do get hold of them the air is full of anxiety and panic with the only out come being arguments and defensiveness with total loss of control which helps the matter absolutely none.

Remember these are natural responses we are only human and with someone we care about breaking up with us our self esteem has been injured and in our mind is unrepairable.

Love is one of the strongest Emotions known to man and when it is threatened or loss the mind and body go into massive hysteria to rectify the situation and get back on track. But as the old saying goes “It Takes Two To Tango.”

So to rectify our partners decision you start to apologize for everything.

and promise to change, never really knowing what needs to be changed if anything.

You try to continually convince them that you are the Love of their life and they’ll never find anyone that loves them like you do.

Then when all self esteem is lost you start to beg them to take you back.

And all your efforts have accomplished only one thing and that is to make them angry and more distant.

You need to know one thing This is not all your Fault…

Your human nature has been dealing with this situation and it doesn’t always make the right choice when it comes to emotions.

You never were taught in school about relationships, did your parents teach you how to deal with them? And I don’t know of any Relationship University.

So how else do you deal with them? Pay a counselor $ 100 an hour to explain why you feel the way you do? There are other ways to deal with the pain and heart ache and most won’t cost you a dime.

For examples there are support groups, forums, organizations and many other outlets you can try to find the help you need.

I only say beware because some of these are wolves in sheep’s clothing trying to make a buck off of ones emotional state. So should you find a group, organization or individual that you think can help check them out just to make sure they are for real and will help you deal with the situation instead of emptying your pocket.

Someone who is honest, ethical and have helped others in these types of situation can most likely give you excellent guidance on How To Get Back With Ex and a few other tips on How To Keep Them Once You Got Em Back.

Don’t let the emotions of your ex breaking up destroy that wonderful individual that you are learn how to get back with ex and live your life to it’s fullest.

“Things can never go back to the way they were but they can be better than they ever were before”

RedHendoo here first off I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru just an individual that has been where you are but have had the privilege of acquiring advice and guidance from some of the greatest minds in dealing with broken relationships. I have taken this advice and put it into action to over come the break up, separation and divorce situations that could have destroyed my life but instead gave me the strength to over come. After long deliberation on this subject it is my purpose and goal to try and help give guidance to those individuals that are feeling anxiety and heart ache as I did during the break up, separation and divorce. To help you eliminate those desperate feelings and over come them as I have done and continue with your lives. http://brokenrelationships.wordpress.com