“My man needs space.” I’ve yet to meet a woman who enjoyed saying that. How could it be pleasurable to admit that your guy, the one man you really love, wants distance or time? We all know what it really means yet we try to appease each other by pretending it’s not what it is. Have your friends already tried to convince you that he’s just so wild about you that he needs a little breathing room to collect his thoughts? Or maybe they’ve tried to tell you that when a man needs space it’s because he’s just about ready to make a serious commitment with you. Deep down you know that’s not the case at all. When he says he needs space it means space from you.
This is clearly one case where you have to give your guy what he wants. When a man needs space, give him space. You’re actually going to go a step further and give him more space than he bargained for. By that, I mean you’re going to give him so much space that he won’t know what’s become of you.
If you have yet to hear of the no contact rule and how it relates to break ups, pay close attention. One very effective way to get a man back when he starts to pull away from you is to pull back harder. If he tells you that he just wants some time to think, give him that and more. Starting right this very minute you’re going to stop talking to your man. The suggested time frame for no contact is two to three weeks. That means for the next few weeks you’ll be focused on everything in life but him.
The plan to win him back doesn’t stop there. During your self-imposed break from your man you’re going to work on upping your appeal factor. Do you remember how incredibly irresistible you were to him when you two first met? That’s who you need to become again. You have a distinct advantage when it comes to making him want you again. This time you are armed with an arsenal of knowledge. You already know exactly what he loves about you. Work on making those qualities shine through.
Let him come to you. He will once he realizes that you’re enjoying your own space more than he thought you would. By that time he will have realized just what he has in you and you’ll punctuate that point when he sees you and is reminded of how utterly irresistible you are.
Learn exactly what you need to be doing and saying to keep your boyfriend when he needs space. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever.
Don’t give up on him if you believe he’s the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.