With each and every moment that passes, your heart breaks a little bit more. You think about your ex boyfriend and you just cannot believe that it is over. There is a part of you that thinks that you should just be able to forget about him, but that is easier said than done. There is another part of you that wants to march forward and win her back, but you are kind of stuck as to what you should be doing to get your boyfriend back.
That’s okay. See, you don’t have to know right now exactly what to say and do to win him back. What you need to do, is to find out how to deal with the breakup in a way that makes you seem a LOT more attractive to your ex boyfriend.
Here’s how to go about getting back your ex boyfriend:
1. Get your life in order and make yourself seem like an independent woman.
Your ex boyfriend is not going to be exactly turned on by you if he sees you walking around in the big, baggy sweats with your hair all messed up and you look like you are depressed since the relationship ended. Don’t give in to the sadness and let it pull you down. That is not going to help you to win back your ex boyfriend. No, instead what you need to do is to get your life in order so that when he looks at you, he sees an attractive, independent woman who is doing her own thing. That will start to get him wanting you back in his life.
2. Don’t be afraid to be flirtatious with other men.
One of the worst things for a woman to do, is to shut down her personal life all because of a breakup with her boyfriend. See, when you let that happen, not only does it make the whole breakup thing seem 10x worse than it has to be, but it also will make you start to behave a little more desperate and that will scare him off. What you need to be doing is to be flirty with other guys and keep yourself open to the idea or the possibility that you can meet someone new.
3. Win him back by being mysterious about your life.
Your ex boyfriend will absolutely go crazy in a GOOD way if you are mysterious about your life. Don’t be too open to tell him everything that has been going on since the breakup, leave some of that up in the air. You want to have your ex boyfriend feel curious about you again, as this will help to get him feeling attracted to you and wanting to get back together again.
If you are struggling with trying to get back your ex boyfriend, then you need to really know what works and what does not.
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