Maybe you’ve recently split up and you want her back. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. Take the employee of the month competition. You don’t win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.
She returns your call without you even asking
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.
You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.
Use her favourite memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. Favourite songs, foods, smells. They all work as good as each other.
Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She won’t be expecting you out & about having fun so soon. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.
Check out what I think are the best couple systems to help you to how to win her back at my website…
How You Can Win Her Back.