If you have just recently been through a breakup, I don’t have to tell you how miserable life seems right now. Believe me, I know; and so do my friends and family! During my last breakup I asked them all about a million times, how do I get back together with my ex boyfriend… I miss him so much! They were all so very glad when we finally made up!
Are you asking that same question? If you are, the first thing you need to realize is that if you really want to get back together with your ex then you need to give him some space. This means no calling, texting, emailing or making any contact whatsoever. I know that can be difficult. Right now you want desperately to tell him how badly you miss him and to please take you back and that you’re willing to do whatever it takes.
Don’t do it though, this can only make matters worse. He needs time to start missing you, time to remember what it was like during the better parts of your relationship. If you are constantly calling him he won’t be able to do that, which, my dear friend, is a major part of your plan to get back together with your ex boyfriend.
Now, with that said, the next thing you need right now is some sort of support system at this lonely and depressing time, like family or friends or better, both. You need to feel loved and valued. Not only will this support help you to feel better but it will distract you from thinking about your ex all the time.
With this in place, it is much easier to leave your ex alone, to let him think about what he has done. If you are no longer chasing him and you are spending time with your friends and family, you can effectively reverse the situation and make him actually seem to want you more than you want him. This won’t happen if you are in his face too often. You need to give him time to be alone and distance yourself from him.
Now, once this distancing plan starts kicking in, there is a very strong possibility that he will call you. This is where you have to know how to play the game. It is a game and there are some strategic things you need to do to make it work. You must not accept his invitation for going out with him or meeting somewhere after the first call. You need to make out as if you have other things to do.
Very soon it won’t be you asking everyone who will listen how do I get my ex boyfriend back, but him wondering the same thing about you! Hang in there, you can do this. I know it is really difficult right now but you need to think clearly about your next steps or you will never get him to take you back.
These are just a few of the many steps you must take to get your ex back… I have many more tricks up my sleeve that are guaranteed to answer that nagging question… How do I get back together with my ex boyfriend? You don’t have to lose him, but you will if you don’t act now. Please visit with me right away at http://www.endbreakupstoday.info to see exactly how I got my ex back when it seemed utterly impossible.