If your relationship has turned sour recently and your boyfriend or husband has chosen a rebound relationship, how do you go about getting him back? A rebound relationship is where someone dates another person soon after splitting up with their partner, to try and get over their ex. These types of relationships offer a break from the many emotions you go through after a break up. When someone needs help moving on from real love, they can turn to a rebound relationship.
And this is an important point to getting your ex back. The fact that he is in a rebound relationship to get over breaking up with you, speaks volumes. The reason for the split does not matter in this case. Whether it was you or him who initiated the break up, still doesn’t matter.
Looking past whoever is at fault for the break up, you can see that there was true love. If you remember one thing from this article, remember this; true love almost always has a way of being saved. The rebound relationship will make him think about the things that went wrong in the relationship he had with you.
If he has picked a rebound partner completely the opposite of what you are like, this is normal because he will be trying to have less reminders of you. At this point he will be noticing the differences between his rebound partner and you, which is great for you for two reasons.
1. He will be thinking about you when he is with her.
2. It gives you an insight into what he is thinking.
If he has chosen someone as different as you can get to yourself, then it might be a hint that he felt he was missing something. If you think this rings true, try using the time you have apart to make improvements in your own life. Let him be when he is in the rebound relationship. The more time he spends with his new partner, the more flaws he will start to notice in her.
After a little while, he will start to think of you as the better relationsihp option. This is the main reason you want him to do whatever he is going to do. He will come to the conclusion that he misses you, all by himself. When he does come back asking for you, you wont need to play hard to get.
Just be your new and improved self and he will do the chasing for you. When your ex moves on to a rebound relationship, know that you can get back together at some point. Keep in mind that for him to be in this type of relationship means that he had strong feelings for you when you were together and he still has them.
So, regardless of thoughts like my husband has left me, or when we were together I think I saw signs of a cheating boyfriend, now that the breakup has happened and you would rather have him back, it is possible for you to get him back, even if he is in a rebound relationship.
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