The slap caused me to see stars, but the words sank like a knife into my soul. She hated me? We were through? Turning I saw the Bouncer towering over me, had a look that dared me to make a move. Wait, she had planned this!! I hadn’t even seen him walk up behind me, I was so engrossed in our argument. She left me no options; I just had to watch her leave. I was so angry! I needed to get out of there.
The next few days were a whirlwind that finally slowed down a bit after a conversation with my dad. After that conversation I knew that I really wanted her back, despite all of this she was the best thing that had happened to me, but if I was to get her back I needed a new game plan I had to get help if I was to get her back. I had to look for help, and I found some vital tips which changed everything.
1. Calm down
That’s the last thing I wanted to do, but it was important. I realized that If I was to get her back I had to win her back, and I couldn’t make that happen if I was seeing red all the time.
2. Listen, What Was it She Said
I thought I had this one figured out, but realized that I didn’t, I sat down and put together a list of what she was really saying and I realized that some of what she was saying was right.
3. Create Curiosity
Easier said than done, I wanted her to come back to me, so I set out to make some of those changes and I wanted her to see them so I showed up where I knew she would be, but kept my distance. I wasn’t there to push her away, but I wanted her to feel that I was available to talk. Eventually I began talking very briefly with her, I made sure that everything stayed on a positive topic, and that the conversations were brief.
I put together a short term and long term plan based on the information I found in my research. She meant that much to me I wanted to be sure that I was prepared for now and in the future, I intended to marry this woman.
The timing is everything, I wanted her back but I knew that I had to play it smart or else this would turn out like the last girlfriend I dumped, and then realized my mistake. She didn’t go for the begging, daily texting or phone calls. There are more vital tips which helped me to get her back ASAP, check these out.