If you want to get your ex back then some good advice would be to look after YOU. Don’t concentrate on your ex, you will stand much more of a chance of getting your ex back if you start with looking after yourself.
Think about it – If you ex has left you for whatever reason then they’re not likely to get back together with you if the situation is even worse than when they left, so if you’ve now let yourself go and look a state and behave like a hermit then there is no reason whatsoever why they would return to you. To get your ex back you need to give them a reason to come back and that can be aided by improving yourself.
So, get your ex back by starting with looking after yourself. If you’re not a member of a gym then join one. Not only will it help you look good but it will give you something to do and help you meet new people. Looking after yourself physically is always going to be a bonus as shallow as it may seem. If you get fit and healthy you’ll look good but more importantly you’ll feel good too.
The next stage to looking after yourself to get your ex back is to change things about your appearance. Now is the time to start experimenting. Get a totally new hair style, something that you may never have considered whilst you were in a relationship. Get a hairdresser to suggest something new for you or just go with the flow and see what you come up with yourself.
Next try a totally new style of dress. If you’re used to always going around in jeans and a tee shirt then why not try smartening up and getting a few shirts and smart pairs of trousers. Likewise, if you always wear suits and are quite conservative in your dressing style then why not try going a bit more casual and slipping into some jeans and short sleeved shirts.
All this can make you look better and feel better. It gives you something to do whilst you’re waiting for your ex to come back and it will also show your ex that you are moving on and making positive changes to your life. The result is that your ex may well want to be a part of that and so getting your ex back can be a lot easier when you start to make these changes.
Don’t be afraid to start these changes, it will help you get your ex back or at least make getting your ex back a lot easier, and it will make you feel so much better at the same time.
Why is getting your ex back so important to you? Because a good relationship is one of the most treasured of human interactions. We all want to be loved. There are the great times together, the shared dreams and visions, the mutual likes and dislikes and more. Great relationships are essential for enjoying a good quality of life. They color everything else around us.