You want to get your ex back but she/he doesn’t even want to talk to you any more? What should you do in this situation? How can you get your ex back if she/he doesn’t even want to listen to what you have to say? How should you approach your ex in these circumstances?
Actually, there are quite a few effective ways to initiate contact with a resistant ex lover or spouse. We will focus on just one of them… by leaving a message.
You want to get your ex back, right? One way to approach your ex partner especially if she/he is being very resistant is to call and leave a message. The message should be to the point and not over emotional. After a break up, some people need space and time to think about what they want; it is highly advised that you give your ex partner at least a month to do this. If you want to get your ex back you shouldn’t try to rush things as it usually backfires.
During this month you need to take some time out and focus on yourself. You need heal at least to some degree. It is only then you may be ready to call.
He/she may not answer so you need to be prepared for that, and in a way this is better as you can get your message through without either getting into another argument or getting too over emotional. Our emotions are funny things at the best of times but when a crisis happens our emotions can go into overdrive. You say things you don’t mean and this can lead to further problems making you further apart from your goal than you were to begin with.
If you want a chance to get your ex back you should really think about what you are going to say before you call as phoning on impromptu is a very bad idea. The most likely you will ramble and your emotions will take over.
Write down everything that you want to say. Then cut that down by half, as you can save some things for when you both do get to chat face to face. What you need to put together to say in your message needs to be intriguing enough for your ex partner to take the bait and call you back.
Think about what your partner needs to hear from you, you have been together for a while so you should know what buttons to press with them. Take advantage of this fact, combine that with a short but to the point message and you will be guaranteed a return call as curiosity will make her/him call. Here is a sample message for you to take a look at and take some inspiration from:
“Hi (insert your partners name here), I’m calling you because I want to apologize for what I said to you last time. I know that you probably don’t want to talk to me right now and I understand that you need some space. I respect that. You were right that the break-up, we both needed to move on. You were the one who realised it first. I will always remember these special moments we shared together. I wish that we could meet sometime for a coffee but there is so much going on in my life right now. I apologize once again”
Arousing curiosity in your ex partner mind is the most important step to getting your ex back. As you can see from the example above you are apologizing for your actions and accepting that your ex has feelings too. By doing this you are showing her/him that you are being reasonable and understanding.
You are also removing a source of the conflict which existed between you two… you are actually creating a new fresh perspective for a future relationship.
As you can see your situation isn’t as hopeless as it may appear. But for this method to be effective you need to know and do a few other things too. Yes, you can successfully initiate contact with resistant ex who doesn’t even want to talk to you. You can learn a cutting edge approach to successful reuniting with your lost lover or spouse. These methods have been used by many with an extraordinary degree of success. Please visit my site at http://www.LonelinessToHappiness.com/ to find out how you can get your ex back in your life again and make her/him fall in love with you again.