Getting back together with an ex is not easy right after a break up. I don’t mean that it will be difficult to get your ex back, what I mean is that trying to do this right after the break up is hard. You are both so angry and bitter towards each other, that to try and talk things out when these emotions are running riot is almost impossible.
Even though you might both be very eager to get back together again, rushing to talk things over usually ends up in another argument, and more bad feelings towards each other. After the break up, it is very important to be patient, have determination, and to try and be positive in this difficult time.
You need to be patient enough to give each other time to get over the hurt and anger of the break up. Yes, sometimes it does seem as if it is taking forever, but it is necessary to get rid of ALL the bad feelings before you can talk to each other again.
To be able to talk reasonably to each other, you need to have a clear head, and be relaxed. That way, you will be able to concentrate properly on what your ex is saying to you and how you will answer correctly.
This is where determination comes in. When the time seems to be dragging out, and you have the feeling that maybe you are doing this all for nothing, then be determined to carry on, no matter how long it takes. Keep telling yourself that this is how you succeed in getting back together with an ex.
Then there is positive thinking. Positive thinking is a very powerful tool in achieving something. Many people give up when the going gets a little rough, but if you can be positive about your situation, and tell yourself that you WILL win, then there is every chance that you will do just that – win.
So in short, to succeed in getting back together with an ex after a break up, you need to be prepared to do a bit of waiting, you also need to be adamant about carrying on, no matter what happens, and, above all, you need to keep yourself believing that there IS a light at the end of the tunnel, and what you’re pursuing WILL happen.