When a relationship breakup occurs, panic sets in. There is the fear of being alone. You start blaming yourself for not being as good of a girlfriend as you should have been. For not seeing the warning signs. You think should I have done that or why did I do that. Your every thought is that you must get your boyfriend back. And then you wonder if you can get him back.

Here is good news. Even though your situation seems hopeless to you, there are some proven ways to renew a relationship and make it so secure that you will never go through the pain of a breakup again. So if you are really sure that you want to get your ex boyfriend back here are four sure ways to do it.

1. Get out of the past. Face the facts that you made mistakes and your ex boyfriend made mistakes. Now you must forgive and forget. You must not only forgive your ex but you must also forgive yourself. Realize that you both are only human with the same flaws that others have. Move on and don’t be so hasty to judge in the future.

2. Don’t wait. If you are going to heal the broken relationship, one of you needs to make the first move. When you feel that you have given your ex the space and time to cool off and think, call him and say “I’m sorry” even if you don’t think the breakup is your fault. These are two very powerful words and if he thinks the relationship problems were his fault it will knock him off his feet.

3. Don’t push. Once you have told him that you are sorry don’t call him again. It’s his turn to make the next move. While you are waiting for him to contact you, do some personal improvements. Get a new hairdo. Some new clothes and if you need to, lose some weight.

4. Get on the move. Start being seen around town having fun and make sure you bump into him now and then. When you do see him be cheerful and act like he is just an old friend. When he sees the new you, he will realize what he let get away. I guarantee you that he will soon be chasing you like a dog after a rabbit. This is how to get your boyfriend back.

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